Life At The Circus

Scott and I see eye to eye on most things.  When it comes to parenting though, we have one major disagreement... pajamas I think they are cute and cuddly and so adorable. Scott thinks they are impractical and a complete waste of time.  "Why do we need to change them just to sleep,"  He asks. I have a hard time coming up with a real compelling reason. "Because they look so cute in them," is typically my reply. When Scott has bedtime duty he rarely thinks this is reason enough to go through the hassle of changing three kids out of their clothes and into another set of clothes.  He typically sends them to bed in diapers and the shirt they wore that day. And I don't complain, because I feel blessed to have a husband who willingly helps with the bedtime routine, who will let me go for a run while he gets the kids ready for bed and puts them to sleep.  But come on, don't you agree... they look way cuter in their pjs?  

I was not an athlete growing up.  I quit softball half way through my first season when I was 8 telling my dad, "I hate it.  You get all sweaty and dirty and stuff!"  (The fact that I had gotten hit in the face twice with a softball didn't help either). In eighth grade I found myself at a new school and decided to play lacrosse.  My friends were all playing and it seemed like fun.  I remember the look of shock on my mom's face when she picked me up from practice the day this pictures was taken.  What happened to her little girlie girl?  Here I was covered in mud and smiling! I had a great time playing lacrosse.  Basically it was time after school each day to hang out with my friends.  And I had to suffer through some running on the side.  Don't get me wrong, I wanted to be good, really I did.  But to be honest, the only reason I was on the team was because our school was small enough that they didn't have cuts.   I held the role of bench warmer aka team encour...

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Anyone want to guess what this picture shows.... That is the roof of our "white" Ford Escape.  I guess you could say its been awhile since car washing made it to the top of the to-do list.  You know it's time to go it again when your kid hears the term 'car wash' and responds with a giggle, "You can't wash cars!  That's silly!"  Ummm....yea...the last time we washed our car this is what my son looked like.   2 years later... the picture has changed somewhat.   And we've acquired a little more "help."  Seems the circus life has kept us a bit distracted over the past 2 years... Yes, I am embarrassed to admit the last time we washed our car was May of 2006.  Our middle daughter is actually older then our son was that last time.  Pathetic! But now that we have such eager helpers, I am sure we will make it out to wash them again before our son is in kindergarten.  And maybe another 3 or 4 ti...

**Updated...for those those that asked Movie Review Below** I'm going on a hot date tonight with my hubby and I am SO excited!!  My legs are shaved , eye brows plucked, and I'm even going to wear a skirt and put on make up!!  Perhaps I'll even add a little jewelry for sparkle!! This time we aren't going to Toys R Us !  I got free movie tickets at the grocery store earlier this summer so thanks to Sarah's raving review , we're going to see the new Batman Movie and eating dinner too (one where we don't have to cut food into tiny pieces, sop up spilled milk, AND we can even have a complete conversation)! I love my kids TONS, but I am super duper excited to have a night out on the town with my man! Since many of you kindly asked, I thought I'd share a few quick thoughts on the movie.  My hubby and I thought it was excellent!  It was well written and superbly acted.   I will say it seemed a bit long, almost like it ended at one point and it went into a secon...

I had a great post written "in my head" Saturday morning.  I was setting off to do a 6 mile run.  It would have been the longest run I had ever done in my life.  Before training for the Annapolis 10 Mile that I am working towards at the end of the summer, the farthest I had run was a 5K (3.1 miles)  So, this would have been about twice that.  Ya know how they say don't count your chickens before they hatch? Yea...don't write your blog achievements before you actually do them. I learned a few more things on my run Saturday morning. The later in the day you run, the hotter it is and thus the harder it is to run.  Sleeping in on Saturday was SO not worth it once I was running in the sun. Starting on a hill is the way to go.  I clearly do not know how to pace myself.  At home I start going up hill which really helps.  This time I started down hill and then flat...I burned out fast. When given the choice of running b...

There were a few blogs I read regularly this winter before I started blogging myself.  One of these is Confessions of a CF Husband .  Nate and his wife Tricia have had an incredible year, filled with many scary and uncertain moments.  It is obvious to me from reading their blogs that they love the Lord and they truly trust in His sovereign will for their lives.  It is both humbling and inspiring to read about their journey. After reading his posts this week, I have been incredibly impressed with Nate and his wife Trica's strong faith during discouraging and uncertain times.  When the test results they received this week weren't the ones they were hoping for or expecting, he wrote with honesty and candor about their feelings, and yet truly praised the Lord through the difficult times.  I want to encourage you to take some time this weekend to read his posts from this week, starting with this post and working through the week.  They are a great exa...

Ever play the game Mad Gab ? One team holds up a card with a gibberish phrase and the other team has to translate it. Translating what my two year old says is a lot like playing this game. Case in point, last week my daughter was teasing my mom. My mom wanted her to call her Grandma and she knew this so she would call her everything but that. As they looked each other in the eye their charade went something like this... Grandma: Hi Girlie Girl (Giggle giggle) Daughter: Hi Mommy (Giggle giggle) Grandma: Ok, Hi Papa (Giggle giggle) Daughter: Hi Tommy (Giggle giggle) Grandma: Hi Daddy (Giggle giggle) Daughter: Hi (I have no idea how to type this phrase phonetically. I am going to let you listen to it because what she intended and what is sounded like are two very different things. Click on the little triangle to hear ). Yea... poor Grandma heard "Hi Retard" and didn't know what to say.  I swear you could have heard a pin drop after that as ever single pers...

Since the day he was born, people have been telling me that my son looks like his Daddy.  He's been referred to as Scott 2.0 and Mini-Me.   I don't argue that there is no debating who his Daddy is, but I will say that he's got my eyes. Make that eye. For photography. Check out these pictures I took of my parents when I was in elementary school.     First we have my mom showing off her Christmas ear rings... at least I THINK that is my mom... it looks like her hands but I managed to cut off the top of her head.   Then we have my Dad showing us what I assume is his birthday gift, can't see it though.  I did get a great shot of our wall though with my smiling Dad off to the side.  Apparently when gifts were given, I got the privilege of holding the camera.  Big Mistake.  Clearly I struggled with framing the subject.   Now here is a photo my son took of his Mommy and Daddy at Christmas when he was 2 1/2. ...

We have a tradition at our house that we do every day when Daddy comes home.  I don't know exactly when or how it started, but as soon as Maggie (our dog) barks to let us know he's home, my older two children dash and hide.  Daddy then has to find them.  I'm sure the words, "Daddy's home...HIDE!"  were just the words he longed to hear after a hard day of work, but he always plays along and looks "high and low" till he finds them and is greeting with smiles and giggles.  My son has actually gotten quite good at hiding, but my daughter still has a lot to learn.    Hmmmm.....where could she be? For more Wordless Wednesdays, visit 5 Minutes for Mom .

I didn't used to be a procrastinator, but now that I have 3 kids, I tend to take care of the urgent first.  This means that sometimes my really good plans get altered when real life sets in.   I have found that if I want to tackle a large project or extra thing (extra being not laundry , groceries , cleaning, cooking... those necessities of life) I need to make a self-imposed deadline in order for it to happen.  It needs its own "urgency" so to speak. When my first born turned one I made a scrapbook of his first year.  I finished it shortly before his first birthday so I was able to sit it out at his first birthday party for friends and family to skim through.  2 years later when my daughter was born, I made a similar book for her.  As I sat down every night for a month working on it I told myself with my next child I will work a little each month so I don't have such a monumental task in front of me with three kids vying for my attention a...

In college I had some friends who had wipe off boards and would write up some funny or amusing phrase they'd over hear and it would stay on the "quote board"  until the next memorable statement.  Anyone else do this? Well, I guess I am using this blog post as my quote board... here are a few memorable ones from the past several weeks.   While drinking some water one hot evening my son said to me, "Mom, soon this is going to be pee!"   When my son was sick last week I told him not to get too close to his sisters so they wouldn't get his germs and get sick.  When my middle child came over to him later in the day he told her, "You have to stay away, I have germs."  to which she responded in a whiny voice, "I want germs... I WANT germs too!"    I looked over at my baby girl yesterday afternoon to find her standing on the toy box.  This was not safe (since she is just learning to walk) so I too...

Last week was a busy week around my house...with celebrating my birthday and preparing for my baby girl's first birthday party, I didn't have a lot of spare time left for reading the Internet. So, of course when I checked CNN.com to scan the headlines, I only had time for one article. Which article did this homebound mommy starved for information on life outside of the circus, click on? 'It was like I was on Rollerblades,' says Miss USA Yes, aren't you glad to know I take the time to read those articles that really matter? For those of you that didn't take time for such pressing issues, she fell on stage during the Miss Universe competition. As I read the article, I couldn't help but think, "Who knew I had so much in common with Miss USA?  Never in a million years would I see myself in a beauty pageant. However, if I was in one, I am fairly certain I'd leave a similar impression. Think I'm exaggerating? Too hard on myself? Reading about...

When I spend time in nature, be it gazing at the waves crashing at the shore of the beach, beholding a mountain peak in all it's might, or gazing at a star studded sky, each time, I feel compelled to worship my Maker.  Spending the day at the zoo this week, was no different. Watching the giraffe reach his long neck out to grab a leaf and witnessing a huge polar bear plunge into a pool of water both  caused me to reflect on the Creator of the Universe.   This may sound trite to say, but I love His creativity.  He didn't have to make so many different animals.  He didn't have to put color into this world.  Why did he make the beak in that bird multicolored? As I walked through the zoo this week with my family, I couldn't help but praise the Creator of all things.     Genesis 1:20-24 20 And God said, "Let the water teem with living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth across the expanse of the sky." 21 So God c...

Just a heads up for anyone who might care, I won't be posting my weekend thought until Sunday.  Tonight I am busy baking and decorating a birthday cake and finishing a scrapbook for my baby girl... we are celebrating her first birthday tomorrow!!  Where did this year go???      Weekend Thoughts: My posts typically relate funny anecdotes about the happenings here at the circus. While my days are seldom “normal” enough to leave me without a “post worthy” moment, I use my last post of the week to highlight something a little more “thoughtful” and significant. If you had a thoughtful post from this last week, or choose to make a new one, please feel free to add a link in the comments section below. I’d love to hear what others are learning. Even though I am not up yet, please feel free to post a link!!

Ya know how they say Mom's have eyes in the back of their head? I'm not sure exactly when my extra set will arrive... do my children have to reach a certain age, or do I need to have a certain number of children? Seems that with a 4 year old, a 2 year old, and an almost 1 year old... I could really use those extra set of eyes...NOW! Here is a video clip I took 1 month ago of my baby girl playing with a sword. Yes, when you have a big brother you grow up accustomed to such weaponry . I was actually on the phone with my mom when I saw her playing with the buttons on the TV and got out the camera. You can hear I was quite taken with her, cooing at her and what not. But, pay careful attention to what is going on behind me. That's right... look at the reflection in the TV behind her, there you will find the real nugget in this home video. Thanks to my hubby for the slow motion replay at the end of the clip.   Yes, that would be my son leaping from couch to couch.  See h...

This week I celebrated my birthday.  As I mentioned yesterday , I love birthdays.  Even though I am a "grown up" now and I am not supposed to care about my birthday, I do.  A lot.  I don't just look forward to it.  I count down the weeks and days until it arrives.   When I was a kid I used to have my parents wake me up to say Happy Birthday at the exact minute I was born.  1:52 AM  (I have since outgrown that birthday tradition)!      My husband and kids went all out this year and treated me like a princess.  Can I tell you I enjoyed every minute of the attention and fuss?  I slept in and was treated to breakfast in bed... my favorite, home made blueberry muffins with milk chocolate Ovaltine.  I was then crowned with my tiara and flower lei which I wore all day.      I had mentioned to my husband recently that I would love to see a penguin in real life.  We've been to th...

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Wanna know how to get your husband to remember your birthday, anniversary, Valentine's Day, or other special occasion?  I have a novel idea for you, that has worked well for me these past 7 years.     Tell him! My husband is horrible with calendars.  His mind just simply doesn't work that way.  Quiz him on the date of my birthday and, given some time to think, he will probably get it.  Ask him how far away that is and he will have no clue (He would need time to figure out which month we were in first).  He just lives each day one at a time and counts on me, his faithful PDA wife to keep him from missing planned events.  I, however, could tell you the birth date of my elementary school friend whom I  haven't seen in over 15 years (can your PDA do that?).  And to top it off, I LOVE holidays.  I continually look forward to the next holiday... we've had Flag Day celebrations and cinco de Mayo dinners... but birthdays ar...

I LOVE Chick-Fil-A .  I could go on and on about how family friendly they are, how good their food is, how I think Truitt Cathy is such a great example of a godly businessman... but I will save my love affair with Chick-Fil-A, the inventors of the chicken sandwich, for another post, or two... Friday was Cow Appreciation Day.  I know this because I subscribe to the Chick-Fil-A e-mail updates and I am in on all things up and coming at Chick-Fil-A.  (See, I wasn't kidding when I said I love Chick-Fil-A). How does one celebrate such an occasion, you may ask?   Well, Chick-Fil-A offered free meals to anyone dressed like a cow.  So, I did what any good mother would do, I dressed up put my three helpless children in cow costumes and took them to Chick-Fil-A for dinner.    Their willingness to parade around in public dressed as bovines, combined with the free coupons I had allowed me to feed my family of 5 dinner for only $6.28.  We had...

We have a rule at our house.  No jumping on the bed. Unless, we're taking pictures...

This past week our church hosted Vacation Bible School. I love that we do vacation Bible School because it provides a tangible way for our church to reach out and serve our surrounding community. Parents eager for a mid summer break are offered something fun for their kids to get involved in. Kids come to play games, make crafts, meet friends, eat snacks, sing songs and the leave having had a great time. Its great to serve. But its also a golden oppertunity. Childeren who might not otherwise harken the doors of a church building are made to feel welcome. While playing games they also learn about my Lord Jesus. What an opportunity to show Christ's love to them and to teach them the Word of God. I have served in several different capacities over the years but this was the first year that my son got to be involved in the program. Watching it through his eyes was one of my favorite parts. I looked forward to watching his preschool class wave to me as they walked outside to see...

Since my son turned 4 I no longer require him to nap every day.  But to keep my sanity ensure that he has some down time, I do require him to have a quiet, rest time in his room while his sisters are napping.  Most of the time he ends up falling asleep.  Other times, he reads or plays with toys on his bed.  On Monday afternoon he found a red pen in his room during this time and decided to  transform himself into Spider Man.  This is what I saw when I let him out of his room that day.  Like the Spiderman hands?     He's informed us that when he grows up, he wants to be Spider Man.  He then asked me, "What does Spider Man do?"  Since I am not exactly a comic book expert, I replied, "climbs walls."  He then asked Daddy if he will build him a wall for him to climb like Spider Man.

Time for another Sincerley Fro' Me To You Post. Since my baby turns one this month, I thought I'd share a pregnancy anecdote with you. In January of last year my good friend told me she was pregnant with her third child. Her oldest son is 10 months younger than my son, and the two of them are good buddies. Her second son is 4 months younger than my middle child. After telling me her news, she said, "Crystal, you gotta do this with me." I replied that while my husband and I knew we wanted a third child, I wasn't sure if we were quite ready. 2 weeks later I called and asked her how hard she'd been praying. I was pregnant! 2 weeks after that my husband and I went for a dating sonogram, thinking we were around 9 weeks. When we looked at the screen my husband and I both exclaimed, "It looks like a real baby!" I am sure the tech thought we were morons, "what did we expect to see?" But, I was thinking I was around 9 weeks and 9 week son...

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Megan tagged me with this a little over a week ago, and I thought it was past time to play along.  So, in case you didn't learn enough about me on my 100th post ... here's more!! 1) What was I doing 10 years ago? It was the summer after my freshman year of college.  My parents moved to PA so I was spending the summer with them and preparing to transfer from Towson University to Slippery Rock Univeristy.  My parents were in the process of building a new home so we were living in the basement while they were building the upstairs.  I had two summer jobs that year... I worked at a nursing home (one of the toughest and most rewarding jobs I've ever had) and I also worked as a waitress at a country club.  It was a tough summer.  My boyfriend (future hubby Scott) was in MD, I was in PA, and I had no friends in PA.  I pretty much just worked a ton to save for college. 2) What are 5 things on my to-do list for today? 1.Help at VBS-- I have to leave the house by 8 am (with all 3 k...

I have a problem. Despite my best intentions, I seem incapable of returning library books on time. Upon returning home from the library, my husband often asks, "So, how much are these going to cost us?" It seems our library visits are taking a dramatic turn for the worst. Even after our bad experience at the library , I took the kids back for books. This last time we weren't scolded for our "inside voices" so I thought all was good. BUT, when we got home our baby girl ripped one of the pages in our book. I told the children we'd have to tell the librarian when we returned it. Our next trip to the library my son dutifully reminded me, "Mom don't forget to tell them what she did to the book!" I was sure to tell the librarian as we returned the book expecting we'd have to pay a small fine or something and they'd tape the page back together. I was informed we'd have to pay to replace the book the next time we cheeked out. I di...

This spring I planted a garden with my kids. I use the term garden very loosely. We did plant seeds and some plants grew, but if you looked at my garden right now you can't really tell the weeds from the plants. In fact my son calls the actual plants, "good weeds." We planted the seeds in April. The kids and I were so excited. We weeded the garden, dug the row and planted the seeds. We knew it would take time. A few weeks later we checked back and could start to see little sprouts coming up. I've mentioned before that I do not posses a green thumb. A true gardener would water her plants daily. She'd check on them. She'd weed the garden. I have done none of these things. We watered our garden when we planted the seeds and that is it. We check on the garden about once a week. I have weeded it once since the initial time. To be honest, I've pretty much left the plants to fend for themselves. I'm sure your not surprised to hear that none of ...

Over the years the fourth of July has become one of my favorite family fun holidays. We took the kids and both sets of grandparents to a local parade. The streets lined with children and American flags reminded me of something out of a movie. It felt like home town America. My favorite part is always when the Veteran's march past. As I stand and clap and cheer, I can't hold in the tears of gratitude for these men and woman who deserve honor and recognition. They sacrificed so much for our freedom. I just hope they know how appreciated they are and they can hear the cheers and shouts of Thank You!  Later this afternoon we'll have a cookout with the whole family again and then go to watch the fireworks. To us it's the fourth as it should be. I know there are many families that today aren't together b/c one or more of their family members is serving our country. To them and their families, I want to say Thank You. We're cheering for you!!